July 11, 2011
A Lesson for Casey Anthony
The jury has spoken and Casey Anthony will be released in exactly seven days. Ironically, her release from jail falls on a Sunday, when most people are communing with their Lord. I wonder if that’s an omen.
Orlando is a small town, contrary to its prominent persona of tourist attractions. I should know. I’ve lived here for over 15 years. The Anthony trial was practically in my backyard and the presiding judge attends my church. Despite all of the hoopla, I didn’t pay much attention to the notoriety until the closing arguments of the case. It’s not that I didn’t care it’s just that nothing surprises me anymore when it comes to the state of Florida. If it’s lewd, ridiculous, unethical and unfair, look for it to occur in Florida. I’m not going to pass judgment on Casey Anthony because the jury has spoken. But I never expected Anthony to ever see the light of day once the trial was over. But she will and let’s hope that the person who exits the jail is much different from the one who entered. Why? Because Anthony is young, presumably fertile and will probably become pregnant again. As a society, we need to provide her with a lesson in motherhood.
Children are our gifts and we as parents are their custodians, their nurturers and providers. We don’t own our children, they belong to our Creator. Unfortunately, they don’t come with a training manual; our experiences are usually based on trial and error. There is not a woman on this planet that has not experienced some level of anger or frustration either towards her children or her circumstances at some point in her life. Sometimes motherhood is a thankless job whose rewards are not immediately apparent. It involves delayed gratification, commitment, patience, and a profound sense of humor. Our children can be both our greatest source of happiness but also our greatest source of pain. It is a dichotomy, this vocation called motherhood. It is not for the faint of heart or an uncommitted soul. And it certainly isn’t for everyone. Therefore I implore Anthony to please consider all of her options before she ventures down the road of motherhood again. If she doesn’t want to have children, permanent sterilization is an option and if she has another child and decides that children are not part of her infamous tattoo that reads “Bella Vitta” or the good life, then please consider the option of adoption.
Caylee Anthony is dead. Neither a death sentence nor Casey’s freedom will ever resurrect her.
April 14, 2010
Nadia Bloom is Alive: A Lesson in Miracles
There are triumphs in life worth celebrating and Nadia Bloom’s rescue was one of them. Yesterday morning WFTV’s “breaking news” reported that Nadia was found alive by a member of her church. Members of the Metro Church in Oviedo, Florida formed a prayer circle and asked God to lead them to Nadia. They explored an area of the woods that had not previously been searched. Their prayers were miraculously answered. James King found Nadia stuck in the mud in the swamp and called the authorities for help. News spread quickly to Lawton Elementary School where both Nadia and my sons attend. Teachers wept. Students embraced. My community exhaled a sigh of relief.
Nadia’s teachers spoke about her with pride. She aced spelling tests; was passionate about Nature and had the makings of a gifted writer. No one was surprised to learn of her love for the American Girl® Book, Meet Lanie Holland. Perhaps it was lessons learned from the book that allowed her to survive five days and four nights in a perilous Florida swamp near a lake filled with alligators.
In honor of Nadia’s rescue, the school’s PTA threw a party and everyone wore orange because it’s Nadia’s favorite color. For the past four days the PTA conducted a school prayer vigil, made hundreds of meals for search and rescue teams and responded whenever and wherever they were needed. Now, it was time to party. The joy on the school campus was palpable. People bought orange balloons and wore orange clothing in solidarity. Music of celebration blared from speakers. Mothers danced in the street. Strangers smiled at each other. Children played tagged and squealed with delight. Mothers stood in line to hug Nadia’s mother and whispered prayers of praise in her ears.
Today a happy ending was brought to life. Thank you God for the miracle.
April 13, 2010
Nadia Bloom is Found ALIVE!!!
I am ecstatic to report that Nadia Bloom was found alive this morning by her minister. Please see link to the Orlando Sentinel story.
http://lnk.nu/orlandosentinel.com/18g7.story
Please read my commentary of joy and thanksgiving in tomorrow’s blog and thank you all for praying for Nadia. Our prayers have been answered.
December 2, 2009
A Painful Lesson For Tiger Woods
Someone should have taught Tiger Woods how to do the media dance; I had to learn the hard way. Although our Florida neighborhoods are only 30 miles apart, our paths will certainly never cross.
However, what Woods and I DO have in common is our public visibility. As a public health employee, my life is an open book.
A few years ago I had to report a former boss for inappropriate behavior based on several patients’ complaints. The case “blew up” because of his notoriety as both an elected official and a physician and I ended up with the media on my doorstep. The reporter, camera crew and satellite truck remained parked in front of my home for almost three hours, reported the 11:00 o’clock news and then finally left. Although I didn’t speak with them that night, I knew that I would have to do so the next day. “Never say ‘no comment’” was the advice that I had been given from a law enforcement agent who was investigating the case.
When I reported to work, a public information officer suggested that I participate in an elaborate scheme to avoid the media. And when I flatly refused, she told me that “I was on my own.”
The maintenance man and a secretary accompanied me as I walked out the door and faced the paparazzi. It was one of the most difficult days of my life. However, I was polite, non-judgmental and advised them that I was leaving the matter in the hands of the courts. My former boss lost his medical license and was removed from political office by the Governor. He faced criminal charges and the case dragged on for years.
In the court of public opinion Tiger, a lie unchallenged becomes the truth. The media is NOT going to go away.


